My First Daygame Approach

My First Daygame Approach

MY FIRST EVER DAYGAME APPROACH almost ended in a lay!!

Yesterday, I did my first Daygame approach in Los Angeles. This moment reminded me of the first Daygame approach I ever did in my life which took place in South Korea and how far I have come since. At the time I lived in Daegu, South Korea and I took a 4-hour train all the way t0 Seoul to begin my Daygame journey because I was so scared that word would get around that I creeped a girl out I approached!

I arrived at 1am on a Thursday. It was a holiday weekend. I put my bags in my hotel room and headed to bar street. I remember walking around the cold streets of Itaewon being too scared to approach any of the girls in the noisy bars and clubs.

I walked one block over to the main street. It was quieter and less crowded. I felt calm and at ease. Then I saw a really CUTE Korean girl standing on the side of the road trying to catch a taxi. It was 2am. I felt anxiety creep up as I entertained the thought of approaching her. I paced back and forth behind her 3 times in a row and then hid in a near by alley to give myself a quick pep talk. My heart was racing and I was scared to death.

I took a deep breath and marched over to her. “Hi, I think you’re cute. Can I have your number?” She paused, scanned me up and down and then gave me her number.

This is honestly the closest thing I could find, however, you’re in for a surprise if you scroll down…

I realized that I didn’t even ask her what her name was so I backtracked and started a normal conversation with her. I found out that she had just come from having drinks friends and now was catching a taxi home because she doesn’t trust herself when she is out alone (her words).

She asked me to help her flag down a taxi. I happily agreed. Then, all of a sudden she changed her mind and she wanted to go dancing. She suggested we go to her favorite club nearby. I agreed of course. She paid the $5 entry fee and in a matter of 30 minutes I went from being too scared to approach a girl to dancing with one of the hottest girls I’ve ever danced with!

I had already gotten farther than I could ever imagine so I was just happy to be there. We danced downstairs, upstairs and then downstairs again. I bought her a drink and she put her phone and cigarettes in my pocket. At one point we even bumped into her friends and she introduced me by squeezing my cheeks and showing me off. I felt on top of the world!

It was now getting close to 6am. I had invited her back to my hotel room a few times and I was now getting sleepy. I invited her back one last time and to my surprise – she agreed! We left the club and walked into the gentle morning light past piles of garbage, crowds of people ending their night and crowds of people starting their day and into the hotel lobby.

I remember her stumbling into my hotel room and once she was there she wanted to play with my camera. I was panicking because the battery had died but it turned out – she didn’t really care. I had 2 beds in my hotel room and of course she claimed the smaller bed all for herself. I, of course, preferred her in my bed so I tried my best to persuade her to join me. She objected, saying she wanted to sleep by herself and that she had a boyfriend pointing to the cheap ring she was wearing.

At this point it was 6:30 in the morning and I was genuinely exhausted. I had very little energy left to put up with her bullshit so I put on my night clothes, jumped into my bed and went the fuck to sleep. I totally ignored her. About 20 or 30 minutes later she asked to join me in my bed. I agreed but I truly didn’t care because I was trying to sleep.

I remember laying there thinking why would a girl invite a random guy out of a night of dancing and drinking and then come back to his hotel room and NOT have sex with him. Hmmmm… strange. Little did I know that, that was my window of opportunity. My precious moment to go from zero to hero was disappearing. There was even a moment in the middle of the night where she rubbed my dick with her foot but I was too oblivious to read these obvious signals.

This an ACTUAL picture of her.

I woke up at about 11am – 4 hours later in shock that she was still there and the previous night wasn’t a dream. When she woke up I kissed her. She gave me stiff lips and said she felt self-conscious about her morning breath and asked, “If I go to the bathroom and come back will you kiss me?” I gladly offered myself up for the task.

When she came back from the bathroom something was different though. She was partly dressed and the moment was gone. I tried again to make a move but it was over. She told me she thought I would make a move in the middle of the night but maybe I was gay and then she just left.

That’s it.

I did manage to see her 2-days later. I took her out, to a club, with a group of friends, that I had met that day, in an attempt to recreate, what should have been, the most epic night of my life and a legendary beginning to my Daygame journey, but by this time she had lost all attraction for me and she even separated herself from me in the club that night. I never saw her again.

– Himalaya

My Japanese/American Girlfriend

My Japanese/American Girlfriend

I was coming off the heels of a summer of 84 Daygame approaches with out so much as a single date. I was frustrated and defeated. Daygame had beaten the piss out of me and I thought there was no point in doing anymore Daygame in South Korea with so little time left before I move to Los Angeles. In the mean time I decided to download Tinder and do some swiping. I got a few matches and the brief conversations I had with them (in english thank god) were already better than the past 15 numbers I had gotten from Daygame. Then I stumbled across a super like.

She messaged me first. Green light. She remembered me from the very first day I was in Korea. We had breakfast in the same room of our hotel over a year ago when I was still with my ex-girlfriend. We messaged back and forth for a while then I asked for her number. Keeping the conversation going with her was very easy as she would send me quite long messages with lots to respond to. Another green light!

We messaged back and forth for 3 full days until I asked her out. I asked her out 3 times.. on the first two times she said she wanted to but she was just too shy and on the third time she finally agreed to meet me downtown the following Tuesday. We kept messaging for another day and a half and she proposed to move our date up a few days to Sunday before. She didn’t want to meet downtown either she wanted to meet in my neck of the woods. Double green light!

Full speed ahead!

The day of our date she came dressed in clothes that looked rather warm for how hot and humid it was. We chatted about the mutual friends that we (apparently) had and about how our summer was going as we walked to a near by coffee shop. When we sat down I saw that she was wearing make up (another green light) and I thought, “this makes sense.” I could see myself fucking her. I started off my verbal escalation as usual with my ‘men and women can’t be friends speech.’ She did not object to the idea ~ green light. I did more comfort for about 15 minutes and then suggested we walk around the near by park. I knew I had to find a way to sit next to her and go for the kiss. The date would be a waste of time if I didn’t make my intensions crystal clear.

We hiked around the park. I complimented her on her legs as I could see them well in her skin tight black yoga pants. I showed her a cool view point then we sat on a bench over looking the park to rest for a bit. We chatted more about our upbringings and she told me she actually grew up in Nashville, Tennessee. If you can imagine a Japanese – American girl with a southern US accent, that’s what I was dealing with here…

Like this but with whiter skin, black hair, hazel eyes and a slightly bigger nose.

There wasn’t a perfect moment to go in for the kiss but I knew I had to – I’ve fucked up too many dates in the past by not going for it. Fuck it. I went in for the kiss. She kissed me for a bit but then turned away. She was embarrassed because she had gotten her make up all over me and because (later I would find out) I was the first boy she had kissed.

She went to the bathroom to fix her herself up. When she came out I proposed we get lunch at a near by restaurant. I pointed out all of the spots in my neighborhood that I frequent (including my house) on the way to this restaurant. We had some Korean BBQ and while she was speaking to our waiter in Korean I could make out a bit of the conversation ~ our waiter asking her if I was her boyfriend and she said “maybe, I’m not sure yet.” Green light?

We joked around about our time in Korea, she made me eat a pepper with her and then called me a punk for not being able to handle it. After we finished our lunch, she asked if I wanted to go downtown to sing some karaoke… I said I’d rather chill in the AC until it cools down. My place was right around the corner so I offered to get some snacks and watch TV at mine. She said, “are you tying to Netflix and chill me boyy?” “I’ve got my eye on you if you try to  make a move.”

I wasn’t sure if that meant yes or no, but I just wanted to try so that my intentions were clear. Never in my wildest dreams did I think she would actually come back with me. We walked out of the restaurant and held hands as we walked back to mine. It was surreal. The whole time I was thinking – is this really happening?

At mine I put on some Dave Chapelle and just chilled and watched it with her. I wasn’t sure how to make a move and to be honest I was enjoying the show. Then SHE took my arm and put it around her so she could get more comfortable. Green light. I waited until my favorite joke was over then I turned her head and started kissing her. She moaned instantly. Sexy little asian squeals.

I kissed her then backed off. I made out with her then backed off. Then I grabbed her, made out with her some more and she moaned loudly. After about 10 minutes of this I reached down for her pussy but she grabbed my hand and said, “no baby.” I kissed her some more and tried to reach down again and she grabbed my hand. Then said she has always wanted to have her titties sucked on so she pulled them out, all the while saying how much of a bad boy I was for “making” her do this. Okay.

She pulled out her titties, I sucked on them and she moaned in ecstasy. I reached down for her pussy and this time she didn’t stop me. I fingered her and sucked on her titties until she came. I put her hand on my hard dick and she grabbed it tightly. I got on top of her and started dry humping her… This is when the moaning got really loud. I tried to take her pants off and she said “no baby I can’t.”

She says as she pulls her titties out.

I picked her up and put her on my bed. She gave me the most submissive look I’ve ever seen in my life. I continued to dry hump her and put her hand on my hard dick. I really thought this was as far as we were going to go then after about 10 minutes she said, “you know if I ask you if you have a condom that doesn’t mean that we’re going to have sex.” “Yeah, I  know,” I said.

“Take off the lights you bad boy,” she said, “I can’t believe you, I’m a good girl!” I took off the lights, she took off her pants, I rolled on a condom and she slipped me inside of her. Her pussy was fucking perfect! She was soaking wet! And the sounds she was making were just beautiful! She even wanted me to lay down so she could ride me – go figure!

After we were done it was no more shyness. She was all smiles and giggles. “Thank you! I’ve always wanted someone to do that to me,” she said. “What do you mean?” I said. “I’ve never done that before… so, sorry If I wasn’t any good at it,” she said, “I’m a virgin!” HOLY SHIT!

THIS is the kind of stuff I got into the game for! What an amazing experience! I took a girl’s virginity! On top of that I found it very intriguing how she gave the same signals as other girls do even though she’s never had sex before.

The Aftermath

We had sex 5 more times over the next 4 days. It became clear to me that she was actually a virgin (I didn’t believe her at first). The week after those 4 days was an even more intense fuck fest! Beautiful times. I am on cloud nine. I catch myself constantly thinking, how is this my actual life right now?! I really can’t imagine it getting any better than this.

– Himalaya


It turns out, it got even better! I ended up spending my entire last month in South Korea with her. We had a magical mini-relationship, she showed me places in South Korea that I had never seen before and since she spoke a little Korean, traveling around with her was so fascinating! THIS is the value I see in Daygame – amazing, life-changing experiences THAT HAPPEN BECAUSE OF MY INITIATIVE! What an amazing girl!